From the Threat of Depression to Joy

Bi-polar, manic-depressive, paranoid-schizophrenic

That's what "they" labeled my dad. I grew up with the realities of pain associated with a loved one plagued by this ailment. Of course, in this case, it was the guy whom I longed to know - the one I wanted to be like, well, at least when I was a boy. Things changed.

I remember as a young adult facing the fears that perhaps I would become like my dad. Maybe I would become depressed and twist off? Perhaps my life would follow his course? Certainly there were voices out there more informed than me that offered the opinion that if my genetics were so inclined, then, yes, there may be an inevitability toward depression and other associated issues. Was I genetically wired for depression?

There was NO way I was sitting down and letting someone bind my spirit with the shackles of assumed inevitability. Regardless of whether or not I was predisposed to some of the illness described above (and, I didn't know if I was), was it inevitable that it had to happen?

Then the spirals!

In about 1992 when I was a student at Clearwater Christian College I began to experience what I like to call the spiral. It would begin with my feelings of discouragement and mild depression. Then I would recognize that I was feeling a bit depressed. This would freak me out. I would then fight to not be depressed further. The fact that I was in this fight would discourage me further which would lend toward greater depressive feelings. I would spiral into a feeling of gray - of darkness. Was there no hope? Was this inevitable after all?

I spoke with my godly psychology professor and explained my family history and what I was experiencing. I asked him about the gene issue and the inevitability of my being like my dad. God used this dear man to set me free.

I was told that regardless of genetic predispositions the Scripture tells us that our minds can be free in Christ. The prof gave me a variety of Scriptures to consider. Isaiah 26:3-4 was one passage as was 2 Timothy 1:7. The latter passage tells us that the spirit of timidity and fear is not one originating from God; rather, power, love, and self-discipline (or, soundness of mind) is what God gives us. These and other Scriptures God used to change my life. I had a choice to make: Was I going to lay down and accept perceived inevitability, or, was I going to receive the freedom of mind and soul that God offered?

The battlefield many times has smoke and blood. Fights are usually hard-won with real grit. God had the "grit" and the power. After all, He had revealed His will in His Word. I remember clearly the day that soon followed my meeting with the professor. I was walking across campus when the spiral began. This time I was prepared. I pulled out my weapon and fired back. The weapon was a little scrap piece of paper scribbled with Scripture. I viewed the fight as one against the enemy of our souls. The Accuser was coming to me trying to make me believe in the inevitability of my predispositions. I was going to be depressed. There was no way to control this. It's just the way it is!

NO! I spoke out of the passion and fear of my heart, "NO!" Then I told Satan to get away from me for the Scripture says that God has not given us the spirit of fear but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind! I went on to tell him that furthermore, God has promised to keep me in perfect peace when my mind is focused on Him because I trust in Him. There were other Scriptures on that paper as well (Philippians 4:4-8).

All of a sudden it felt as if the darkness lifted out of my heart. My mind was clear and I was full of joy! What relief!

Until a few minutes later, that is, when the spiral started again. I had a choice to make. I pulled out the Scriptures again and said, "NO! Satan, you are a liar! God said differently than what you are now saying to me. I believe God." Then I quoted the Scriptures in faith again.

God set me free. Really free.

I remember some milestones along the way from the journey 20 years ago till today. There was the milestone of realizing in my mid-30's that I had made it past the time when my dad had his breakdown and began to lose it all. There was the milestone of realizing my life was on a good track with marriage and ministry (and now parenting) - all things that crashed for my dad. I do not condemn my dad (or anyone else who suffers from the above plagues). Far from it! I am simply a grateful son who has been set free.

Thank you, Father, for Your divine grace.

Prayer for 2012

The following is a Puritan prayer from the book, 'The Valley of Vision.'

Amazing Grace

O Thou giving God, My heart is drawn out in thankfulness to thee, for thy amazing grace and condescension to me in influences and assistances of thy Spirit, for special help in prayer, for the sweetness of Christian service, for the thoughts of arriving in heaven, for always sending me needful supplies, for raising me to new life when I am like one dead.

I want not the favour of man to lean upon for thy favour is infinitely better. Thou art eternal wisdom in dispensations towards me; and it matters not when, nor where, now how I serve thee, nor what trials I am exercised with, if I might but be prepared for thy work and will.

No poor creature stands in need of divine grace more than I do, and yet none abuses it more than I have done, and still do. How heartless and dull I am! Humble me in the dust for not loving thee more.

Every time I exercise any grace renewedly I am renewedly indebted to thee, the God of all grace, for special assistance. I cannot boast when I think how dependent I am upon thee for the being and every act of grace; I never do anything else but depart from thee, and if ever I get to heaven it will be because thou willest it, and for no reason beside.

I love, as a feeble, afflicted, despised creature, to cast myself on thy infinite grace and goodness, hoping for no happiness but from thee; give me special grace to fit me for special services, and keep me calm and resigned at all times, and conformed to thy will.

(pages 110-111)

Adoption Party Help

How would you like to be a part of helping connect kids in need of families with families wanting kids? Council Road Baptist Church has been asked to help serve at the February 25, 2012 Adoption Party at Douglas High School.

Parents who have gone through the process of getting approved to adopt through DHS will come to meet kids who are available through DHS for adoption.

This will be a carnival-type atmosphere with karaoke, games, face painting, booths for nail painting, and a variety of other fun things.

We need teams to help on Friday afternoon, the 24th, for set up as well as Saturday after 2 p.m. for clean up.

We also need help serving at the Adoption Party itself.

Would you like to be involved? Contact me for more information.

503-4092 mobile

jhunt@councilroad.org

Psalm 32

Recently the state of Oklahoma experienced the worst drought in many, many years. River levels were down in many places and some lakes were all but shut down they were so low. Lake Hefner is located in our city – it’s a popular place to go fishing and boating. Our family has been blessed by a man in our church who let’s us take his sailboat out whenever we want to. This year, however, we didn’t get to go even one time because the lake was just too low. I took our 8-year-old son out to see the lake at the height of the drought. Where there had once been water there was nothing but a sand bar. Gage went out exploring and found a dead catfish that somehow had gotten trapped on land as the water receded. I turned to look at him and had to laugh as I saw him holding up this dried out catfish on the end of a stick and with a triumphant declaration of, “Dad, look, I’m the luckiest kid out here today!”

Well, since that time God has sent rain – lots of it. The rivers and lakes are filling back up. Life is getting back to normal – the way God intended for it to be.

When we refuse to repent of our sin we become just as shriveled up as that dead catfish. We dry up like the lake. Our spiritual vitality is parched and we need the refreshing spiritual rain that only God can provide as we in faith repent of our sin and seek to restore fellowship with our Lord.

Thanksgiving

If all you held dear was removed; if your future lost its luster fading into the shadows of heartache; if God then said, "I love you." Would you believe Him? Would you still bow with thankful heart and confessing lips, "Jesus is Lord?"

Thanksgiving: A punch into our "normal" to remind us that we are to "in everything give thanks for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."